Ask a different question. Our mind gives us answers to the questions we ask it. You're asking your mind to invent a raft of trust issues.
Why not start asking, “How can I connect with the people I meet today?” You'll start making connections. Some of those, you'll want to deepen. Before you know it you'll have life full of people you feel connected to, and some you will be ready to trust with anything, including your heart.
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