"I haven't been the Person You Deserve"
What does this mean? I just want to let you know that I love you. I'm so sorry that I have not been the person that gives you what you deserve.
It sounds like he feels that he just can't, at the end of the day, please you.
There are a number of possibilities here:
Getting Over Missed Opportunities
How do I move on from not taking an opportunity that was extremely important to me?
You get wiser and you create a framework to make sure you don’t make that mistake again. And then you start putting yourself in places where the kind of opportunities you want are likely to show up.
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Disclaimer: I liked the picture, I have no opinion on the book; I've never even seen it before. If you read it, I'd be happy to know what you think about it.
How to Rob the Corona Virus of its Relevance
Here's the thing: What scares us about the Corona Virus is that we might be dead sooner, in some arbitrary way that wasn't already figured into our calculations.
A Stupid Fear
If you think about it, this is downright stupid.
It's Not Your Privilege to Determine if You are "Good Enough"
I answer some version of this enough that it's worth my addressing separately. It can also come out as “I'm not in her class.” or “Why would she love me?” or “I can't possibly live up to her standard.” or “What could I offer her?” or “What could she possibly see in me?” or, worst of all “I don't love her as much as she loves me.” Feel free to swap the pronouns: I'm sure women have the same hang-ups.
A Personal Code
Mr. Joyner, developer of Simpleology, in his “The Greatness Awakening,” (I tried to get you a link to this, but couldn't find it) at day ten assigns my mission as:
- Write your code. Here's mine:
- Be the kind of person who leaves a profit.
- Always be learning.
- Always be moving forward.
- Take care of people.
- Anything that takes you off your path is actually taking you backwards.
- Print it out
- Put it on a wall where you will see it every day
- Memorize it
- Repeat it to yourself once a day before bed
I liked this assignment; so I share this also with you.
