Don't you dare suffer for his art. If he wants to suffer for his art, that's fine. It's his life. You can drive him to his gigs, be his sound engineer if you want, and be his biggest fan, but he's got to take on being the damned artist.
A few errors in judgment, repeated every day >>;accumulated disaster; A few simple disciplines, practiced every day >> untold riches
You have to know what to say no to if you want to succeed.
You can't afford the "good life" if you don't know what it costs.
You're most likely to get what you want if you know what you want.